No hard feelings.
Even gravity lets go sometimes.

Thanks for being part of this, even for a little while.
You mattered. You still do.

All the best to you – John

Thank you. Not the plastic kind. Not the customer-service smile with dead eyes kind. I mean it. Really.

You could’ve spent that money on caffeine, comfort, or another hit of digital distraction. But instead, you threw it into this weird little corner of the internet — my corner. You helped keep this mad, messy thing alive. And that’s no small thing.

In a world wired to take, you gave. In a culture of scroll-past indifference, you stopped, saw, and said this matters. That means more than I can put into words, but I’ll keep trying — because that’s the deal here. Blood on the page. Truth over polish. Gratitude without the greeting card gloss.

Your support isn’t just a donation. It’s oxygen.

So thank you — for fueling the work, for trusting the voice, for helping me keep shouting into the void.

And if the void ever shouts back? I hope it says your name.

All the best to you – John

Here’s a comprehensive list of the top 100 things people commonly want to be, do, or have across different aspects of life—wealth, health, relationships, experiences, and personal growth.

🔥 To Be (Personal Growth & Identity)

1. Successful
2. Happy
3. Wealthy
4. Loved
5. Respected
6. Confident
7. Free (financially & personally)
8. Healthy & fit
9. A great parent
10. A leader
11. A business owner
12. A millionaire (or billionaire)
13. Charismatic
14. Knowledgeable
15. A great speaker
16. A top expert in a field
17. Adventurous
18. Spiritually fulfilled
19. Creative & artistic
20. Disciplined

🌎 To Do (Experiences & Achievements)

21. Travel the world
22. Start a business
23. Own a dream home
24. Get married
25. Write a book
26. Learn a new language
27. Skydive
28. Retire early
29. Build passive income streams
30. Give to charity & help others
31. Learn to play an instrument
32. Run a marathon
33. Visit all seven continents
34. Start a YouTube channel
35. Learn to dance
36. Try extreme sports (e.g., scuba diving, bungee jumping)
37. Go on a cruise
38. Live in a different country
39. Become a social media influencer
40. Meet a celebrity
41. Own a successful blog or podcast
42. Watch the Northern Lights
43. Learn self-defense/martial arts
44. Host a TED Talk
45. Create a successful online course
46. Be featured in a major publication
47. Start a non-profit organization
48. Ride in a hot air balloon
49. See the Grand Canyon
50. Go on an African safari

💰 To Have (Material & Financial Goals)

51. A luxury car (Lamborghini, Tesla, Rolls-Royce)
52. A private jet
53. A dream vacation home
54. A yacht
55. A six-figure business
56. A designer wardrobe
57. A thriving investment portfolio
58. Multiple income streams
59. A collection of rare watches or jewelry
60. The latest gadgets & tech
61. A state-of-the-art home office
62. A fully equipped gym at home
63. Financial security for family
64. A dream wedding
65. A high-end gaming setup
66. A library filled with books
67. High-quality camera & photography gear
68. A world-class art collection
69. The best fitness equipment
70. A thriving eCommerce store

💖 To Be with Someone (Relationships & Love)

71. Find true love
72. Have a supportive partner
73. Raise a happy family
74. Be surrounded by great friends
75. Be a mentor to others
76. Repair broken relationships
77. Find a like-minded business partner
78. Build a strong personal network
79. Inspire & help others succeed
80. Leave a lasting legacy

🧠 To Learn (Skills & Knowledge)

81. Master public speaking
82. Learn coding & tech skills
83. Understand stock investing & trading
84. Learn real estate investing
85. Master digital marketing
86. Become a great negotiator
87. Learn meditation & mindfulness
88. Study psychology & human behavior
89. Become a great storyteller
90. Develop speed-reading skills

🏆 To Achieve (Dreams & Recognition)

91. Win an award in an industry
92. Be debt-free
93. Have 1M+ followers on social media
94. Make a viral video
95. Break a world record
96. Become an expert in a niche
97. Be a top-paid professional in a field
98. Get recognized in Forbes, Business Insider, or TIME
99. Leave behind generational wealth
100. Be remembered as someone who changed lives

💡 Which of these are on your list? 🚀

Demographic Data Collection

Demographics provide insight into the “who” of your audience. Make sure you’re collecting and analyzing these basic but critical factors:

• Age: Identify key age groups and their preferences.
• Gender: Understand gender-related preferences or trends.
• Income Level: Gauge purchasing power and spending behaviors.
• Education Level: Helps define the intellectual engagement of your audience.
• Location: Geographic location, including country, region, city, or even specific zip codes.
• Occupation: Know the industries or job roles your audience is involved in.
• Marital Status: Determines household composition and potential family-oriented products.
• Ethnicity and Cultural Background: Understand the cultural context to tailor your messaging.
• Family Size and Structure: Particularly relevant for products targeting families or certain life stages.

Psychographic Data Collection

Psychographics dive deeper into the “why” and “how” of your audience. Collect information about:

• Values and Beliefs: Identify core values that resonate with your audience.
• Lifestyle: Examine their daily activities, interests, and hobbies.
• Social Media Usage: Understand platform preferences, engagement patterns, and the type of content consumed.
• Personality Traits: Know if your audience is extroverted, introverted, adventurous, etc.
• Motivations: What drives their purchasing decisions (e.g., status, utility, convenience)?
• Buying Behavior: Look for trends in purchasing habits (e.g., frequency, average spending, online/offline).
• Pain Points: Understand the problems or challenges they want solved.
• Brand Affinity: Which brands do they align with and why?
• Media Consumption Habits: Identify preferred types of media (e.g., video, blogs, podcasts, TV, etc.).

Tools & Methods for Gathering Data

• Surveys and Questionnaires: Use tools like Google Forms, Typeform, or SurveyMonkey to collect data.
• Social Media Analytics: Leverage built-in analytics tools (Facebook Insights, Instagram Insights, etc.).
• Website Analytics: Use Google Analytics to understand visitor demographics, behaviors, and interests.
• Customer Interviews and Focus Groups: Direct conversations with your audience can reveal rich insights.
• Third-Party Data Providers: Platforms like Nielsen or Statista provide aggregated demographic and psychographic data.

Your email funnel should be a series of emails sent automatically over a period of time. Here’s a typical flow:

• Email 1 (Welcome/Thank You Email): Introduce yourself, thank the subscriber for joining, and deliver the promised lead magnet or offer. Let them know they can expect valuable information in future emails.
• Email 2 (Building Trust): Share helpful content (blog posts, case studies, reviews, etc.) that demonstrates your authority in the niche. You may also introduce the problem your affiliate product solves, without making a hard pitch yet.
• Email 3 (Value + Soft Promotion): Provide more helpful information or educational content. Briefly introduce the affiliate product you’re promoting, but focus on how it solves a problem for your audience.
• Email 4 (Social Proof): Include testimonials, reviews, or case studies of people who have benefited from the product you’re promoting.
• Email 5 (Strong Call-to-Action): Make a direct offer with a clear call-to-action. Include a compelling reason to act now, such as a limited-time discount or bonus for purchasing through your affiliate link.
• Email 6 (Urgency + Reminder): If the promotion is time-sensitive, send a follow-up email that creates urgency (e.g., “Last chance to get 30% off!”).
• Email 7 (Post-Purchase/Continued Value): Even after the sale, continue providing value. You can offer additional resources, tips, or related products that complement the affiliate product they purchased.